I joined a dating event recently. He contacted me after the
event, stating that he wants to know me better. However, he has
never asked me out. During our online conversation, it was just
purely casual and he didnt ask me many questions to know me better.
However, he would often flirt with me online and hinted that we
could hang out one day. I thought he was interested to know me
better and had some romantic interest in me. But the date
invitation never came.. He only attended a group outing. Many
times, he gave excuses.
I thought that he wanted to go out with me. Hence, i asked him
out for dinner, hang-outs on 4 to 5 occasions. He will declined me
politely. There was once he agreed but he played me out at the very
last minute. Yet despite his rejections, he still continue to
suggest that we could hang out some day.
I am very unhappy and frustrated. He asked me to consider going
out with other guys and that why i feel he is suitable for me. I am
upset because he hasn't know me in person and yet, he has already
written me off based on our 10 minutes conversation in the dating
event. In that case, why did he choose to contact me after the
event, and still flirt with me? if he is totally does not want to
go out with me on an one-to-one basis.
I thought he is a nice guy and I could know him better, even as
a friend. But, he hasnt even know me well and has already rejected
me as a person, and totally dismiss me. or the idea of us going
out. I am very sad. why is this so?
