As you know, last time I ask a co worker out and she turn out to
be my cousin's bride. So embarassing. So I feel sad because I
choose the wrong lady to ask out. I ask some of my friends for
advice.
Then one day we friends go out and then one of my close friend
Mr A, he bring out a nice lady, Ms B to join us gang of
friends for makan. She purposely sit next to me. So I speak to her
and find out more about her. She turn out to be older than me but
she is nice person. So I am glad to make a new friend. But
afterward, when I meet Mr A again, he keep on promoting Ms B to me.
He keep on saying how homely, filial and good cook she is. I very
appreciate what Mr A is helping me and I really appreciate to get
to know Ms B. But we went out couple of time as a group and I get
to know her by talking to her, I try to be nice to her and not be
rude, I just not really feel the chemistry. Not just the physical
attraction (I of course not looking for pretty girl) also not feel
the spiritual attraction. Yes, she is nice lady but I dont know
why, I just don't feel interested, only interested in making friend
with her.
So now how do I tell Mr A that I am just only making friend and
not interested in Ms B, without offending him?
If she likes you, then you should give it a try at going into a
relationship with her.
If not, then you have nothing to worry about.
Unless you think she likes you? 
