How can I socialized more with girls without giving them the

Undiscoveredsoul98 SG

Growing up I have always shy away from girls. It has always been difficult for me to mingle with them like how I did with guys. As I grew up, I met lots & lots of girls in the work places I've been. Just when I thought I finally had the courage to chat them up, its somehow not enough.

I still talk to the girls at my place as my colleagues are more females than males. But I still have problems keeping the conversation going, especially when its just the 2 of us alone. Sometimes, I feel there is no chemistry or age gaps or maybe no common interests. I cant seem to find girls I can build up chemistry with.

And one more thing is that, I hate it when girls say I'm such a nice guy. Though they may not meant any offence, but we all know girls dont like nice guys. So i find it insulting then they said that. I'm no nice guy and I'm no bad boy either. I know there are times to be nice and there are times to be a jerk, depending on the situations. Most people say I have that "nice guy" look and thats also the reason I dont like the way I look. People may think they can dance all over my head after looking at me.

Rock^Star SG

Well, depending on how u view yourself, nice guy can be mean something good or bad. Maybe you need to work on your self esteem. I have seen chilli padis with the nice guy or gal look. It's how you carry yourself. Just be natural and dun expect anything out of the conversations with girls. It helps if humour is part of your everyday life.

Fugazzi SG

Die to the conceptual models in your head and everything, even daily living can be a breeze.

People, situations, circumstances are all excuses and by that I mean what one is surfaces.

No one here on earth can fulfil that aspect that one lacks within oneself. At the most it is a compromise and when one compromises one has to deny some aspects of one''s being .... unwise and woefully undignifying!

littlemissbonkers SG

Lol

my larling ish a nice guy lei

Who says all gals go for bad boys?

Gotch some ish 识货 de ok

And hor, those gals are probably not very interested in you becoz u're not interesting enough. As in, you don't tell them anything interesting or funny and etc.

Whimsy SG

No worry, your mother still love you

likeyou SG

TS shld go our more often with your friends or collegues for a drink or eat.

To build up your confidence and to be able to talk to opposite sex more at ease.

A growing stage, not to worry much, let it flow natural.

Dont stress or pressure yourself.

Relax, calm and get out of your sofa and make more friends and outings.