My marriage has been a stormy one. My hubby had an affair 3
years ago which I have forgiven him. However, recently I saw that
same ex-gf smsing him 'Miss you so much darling, miss your
hugs and kisses'. I was stunned. He told me that they did not do
anything sexual and I had to force myself to believe that. Having 3
kids, I had to endure. However, it has been like 6 months since we
last had sex and I am very upset that he seemed really cold towards
me. While I cannot divorce due to my 3 kids (age 4 to 10), I have
been suffering emotionally and dying deep inside me. I am quite
overweight due to births and I am not young, 42 this year. I feel
so ugly and unwanted. Is really shattering to feel that my hubby is
having an affair while I had to endure. I am a houswife so I am
dependant on him. I feel so suicidal.Help!
Coolmint,
Your hubby is hardly to blame for this predicament.
You have neglected to make yourself attractive to your own
husband.
Being 42 and having 3 kids is a LAME EXCUSE for not getting
yourself into shape.( Unless you are sick or is physically
handicapped) you are probably stuffing your face with food as you
type.
So you are overweight, yet you expect your husband to still have
that physical attraction to you ?? GET REAL.
Will you do the same to him? When he is fat and lazy ? Can you
really feel romantic when all you see are mounts of fat on his body
around his dick ?
Be real, get off your lard butt and get some exercise.
U are a housewife, when your older kids are in school, take that
time you have and go do some exercise.
Take the youngest on a stroller and brisk walk around the
neighbourhood or around the park.
Instead of sitting at home and feeling pity about yourself.
I can predict you will blame it on not having enough time. Don't
bullshit yourself, because only you will be convinced.
Manage your time properly.
Your own predicament is YOUR OWN DOING you lazy bum.
When you look good, you will feel good, then your husband will
also want to have sex with you instead of another woman.
Feeling more suicidal now ?
Don't worry, you don't have to cut yourself or do PAINFUL things
to your own body just to kill yourself.
With your overweight situation, HEALTH PROBLEMS will eventually
kill you anyway. High blood pressure, heart attack, organ failures,
strokes, all weight related illnesses.
You sure you want your kids to grow up without their own mother
? Sure, go ahead then, kill yourself.
Let your husband find another woman, she will be your children's
STEPMOM.