Historical
background
I join this co 8 mth ago. I start out project with this lady,
she is 25. We did a lot of project together and we spoke a lot,
went out dinner as a group, when we werk late. Then I got
interested in her and sometime I call her phone to discuss project.
I thought she is single. So I decided to ask her out. I text her
once. Ask her to eat dinner with me. She answer one day later, she
say no with excuse. Then I try again, also same result. Third try,
this time I confess I like her. This time she tell me to forget
her. fail.
Surprise
no.1
Turn out that the girl is going to get married but she never say
anything like that to me. For 8 month we work in projects, I
thought she was single. Only yesterday I found out she was going to
get marry. So how?
Surprise no.2: She is going to marry my cousin. So embarassing.
My cousin mother is my mother's younger sister. So how? So how?
I did not know at 1st but when I saw my mother pass me the
wedding card and saw her name and picture.
What should I do? Should I ponteng wedding? Should I face the
wedding? Will she say bad thing to my relative about me?
I am so headahe now.
What the hell you headache about !!!
Small things like that headache - still call yourself a man.
Like chinese say - "can take up and put down". Why you so granny
and aunty.
You just a colleague - you never close to her enough for her to
tell you, and you never ask. So what even if
everyone know - just laugh it off as a man, and say my cousin
more lucky manage to success when you failed. People will respect
you more for your gentleman and gracefulness.
