Help! Going to be homeless because of gambling addict father

last SG · 2010-12-01T01:01:11+00:00

Find a day, when you dad get badly drunk, or you buy lots of drinks and make him drink till drunk, then push him down your flat, call police and report a mis...

parn SG

I encourage any jokers to cease your unfunny jokes, otherwise I will refer this thread to the police.

I am sure you can be arrested for inciting to murder.

Since you are aware that we're joking, yet you insisted on taking our comments seriously.

Do you plan to blackmail me with this in the future then asked me out to meet you then you forced yourself on me and raped me then you repeat this cycle again as and when you desire?

Say yes or even anything that's not a NO and I have a valid case on my hand.

Why threaten to arrest me when you don't know I can still give you free legal advice?

wakely SG

I don't want to kill my father. I do think it solves a lot of problems for a lot of people who are unfortunately, just about slightly, involved with him, but i don't want to kill him.

So i went to the HDB and they say i can't do anything about it.

My house is barren and empty now. It's ready for sale in a few days time. It hurts me so much to see my home like that. My home is the only place i could relax, and feel warm. I feel "me" when i was there. I could dream and i could hope. I have a goal - to earn money and keep my home - to look forward to. And such a nice home it is too! It really is nice - airy and big. It's real easy to move out, but i don't want to. My mum is there, don't you get it? I could feel my mum there. I could remember my life before everything turned upside down, and everything that was good is gone. All the fond memories. I was lying on the dusty floor in that empty flat wondering if i still love the house when it's like this - dirty, smelly and barren. Strange thing is, i still feel a strong connection to it. I still want to keep it. The furniture may be gone, but told snap shots or them and shortly i'm gonna have a shifu to rebuild them exactly the same for me.

My father did not care for my mum. Maybe he used to, but then he sure didn't afterwards when he decide to marry his soul to gambling.

My father planned to downgrade, and his plans include me. You may say at least he still cares for me, but i know better. He just cares for what that is "his" and right now, it includes me. This misunderstanding won't last much longer i can assure you that. Most importantly, i can't live thinking how he sold my home, my childhood, my everything away just to throw everything to the superpowers who owned the casino. I positively feel no kinship to him anymore, especially since he started on this losing streak and now he's become a maniac. I really do not care whatever that may happen to him if he continues on, but i don't want to dirty my hands by becoming the punisher i have no business becoming. I won't let me drag me down like that.

My sorrow is indescriptible and there are so many words i could use yet i just can't utter them out anymore. I'm going to visit another authority tommorrow to see if anyone can help me. I seriously don't know if i can 过这关 or not. I was so close to jumping, the urge is monstrous.

xXlccporXx SG

Dun suicide or kill ur father, it wunt solve ur problem, i think u better talk to a someone who can help change ur father. Like some gambling counseler. Tell him/her to talk to ur father a round. See if this helps u.

Good Luck

xXlccporXx SG

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xXlccporXx SG

Hi wakely,

I suggest u seek help quickly. Go/call your the nearest Family Service Centre (FSC) for help.

http://app.mcys.gov.sg/web/serv_newdss_disability_main.asp?Services_Id=2#1

or National Council for Problem Gambling. They hv a Helpline - 1800 6668 668 1800-6-668-668. http://www.ncpg.org.sg/

Lawrence

http://purposewisdomoflife.blogspot.com/

wakely, You got try?

likeyou SG

TS, since your father doing to downgrade, at least you still have a roof over your head.

Talk to your father about his bad habits that affected your life and your family life.

I am sure he will listen to you if he loves you alot.

wakely SG

My father would only slap me for talking back to him and making him unlucky and lose money

likeyou SG

My father would only slap me for talking back to him and making him unlucky and lose money

When you talk to your father, u must find a right timing.

See his mood. Good mood, ask, bad mood, stay away from him.

wakely SG

I'm sorry, but my father isn't nearly 1/4 as decent as all of you like to think. You've never seen a true babarian until you have seen my father. You can never talk to him because he knows more twisted theories than anybody on earth. No doctors or professors could tell him otherwise. My mother is a simple old-fashioned housewife who believes in following my father in everything he does. She could not think for herself. She believes everything my father said. And my father tortured her day and night with his words and he would just go on and on and on for hours that my mother has become panicky and unstable and i can't do anything about that. I wanted to kill him for so many times, it almost feels like it's the only natural thing to do. I have envisioned bashing his head in so many times and it really is frightening.

likeyou SG

Can request for police protection if your mum really are suffering from his verbal abuses.

Alternatively, look for a rented flat and move out from your father.

AHappyPerson SG

So killing is a bad thing to do?

You will be honoured as a HERO if you can kill many people in a war, but you will be branded as a CRIMINAL if you only kill one person during peace time.

So Guan Yu and Lu Bu are all MASS MURDERERS? And all your so-called unchristian gods who have also killed many are all mass murderers then?

Only Jesus Christ is the one and only clean and unstain GOD and not a murderer. So Christianity is the one true religion of peace.

For God's sake, stop talking trash when you have nothing to offer except poisonous sarcasm in a help request thread.

DailyFreeGames.com was only joking. Yet, you have to reply with such a load of religiously insensitive bullshit with illogical references. Even if both he and angel were serious, what he said only meant that he would watch his back as a result of possibly masochistic people, which is only natural as self protection. (No offence, Angel, I know you were joking too.)

Still, you had to go such a long way in misinterpreting what he said into "killing is always wrong" and bring up a whole load of meaningless religious arguments. What on Earth is your problem?

Dear TS,

Killing your father or yourself would definitely not be a good solution. Have you tried Lawrence's suggestion? Singapore seems to take strong measures towards gambling addictions. They would most definitely try to help you, if you don't mind your father going to jail if all fails.

Asromanista2001 SG

real solutions..............

get mommy to divorce daddy............split the house...........alimony and child support............

when daddy kana all this............he will kill himself plus no money to gamble liao...............

or stage an ''accident'' that will result in the demise of daddy...........

whattodo? SG

WA KAO, srsly, i can't believe you guys! If you all don hv sincerity to help then clam your mouth lah. The mother is dead! Rubbing salt to the wound and no help. TS don wan 2 save the father then you all keep sayin gambing addiction like it will help him to get the house like tat. I check on the internet an cannot find law to protect him esp since he over 17 liao. But i got check the law ok. Wa Kao, you all srsly wan TS to repeat mother dead how many times to you???????

likeyou SG

Any relatives to approach? Your uncle or auntie?

They might offer some help to you.

deathmaster SG

was thinking about something else.

under the Maintanence of Parents Act, your father can actually ask you go work and give him money to support him, regardless of the fact that he is a failed parents.

as stated by our beloved government, you would have the legal responsibility to tend to his basic needs, e.g. food and shelter, and medical treatment.

good luck.

parn SG

I don't want to kill my father. I do think it solves a lot of problems for a lot of people who are unfortunately, just about slightly, involved with him, but i don't want to kill him.

So i went to the HDB and they say i can't do anything about it.

You only tell us the truth only after you think we have fought it out, so that you can keep your little pathetic topic up?

Don't tell us you're going to be homeless if you're NOT going to be homeless.

Hahahahahahhaah!!!!!!! DO YOU THINK YOU ARE THE ONLY PERSON IN THIS FORUM WHO UNDERSTANDS SORROW?

REAL SORROW DEFINITELY DON'T ALLOW YOU TO TYPE SO MUCH AND TALKED SO MUCH ABOUT IT. REMEMBER IT NEXT TIME FOR YOUR IDIOTIC TOPIC!!

Hehehe....you also agreed to kill your Dad even though your Mum is already DEAD, and your Dad is going to take care of you by down-sizing the home despite his gambling habits which is none of your business to mind at the moment in time. Why I said it is none of your business is because you cannot even take care of yourself and be independent enough to support yourself without relying on your Dad!

People who were close to jumping, definitely doesn't talk about it melancholy like you did. They either JUMPED or they recovered their sadness from their fear of jumping and treasure their lives.

Anyway, good luck with your authorities seeking and treasure your lives FOR THE SAKE OF YOUR MUM!

ALWAYS THINK ABOUT YOUR MUM AND THINK IF SHE WOULD APPROVED OF YOUR INTENTIONS TO KILL YOUR DAD AND HOW YOU ARE CONDEMNING THE ONLY GUY SHE HAD LOVED AND MARRIED!

Maybe your Dad sought out gambling out of sorrow after your Mum had passed away?

Talk to your Dad and take initiative to establish communications with him. DON'T ASK ME WHY! BECAUSE YOUR MUM WOULD HAVE APPROVE OF YOUR INITIATIVE TO COMMUNICATE WITH YOUR DAD!!

IF you tell me "But I know my Mum would not like me to take initiative to talk to my Dad....", then I'll know that you're LYING! and you just want to extend your sorrowful story further!

Anyway, this is going to be my last advice post to you. I don't know when the others will realised that they are being taken for a free ride, but you are welcome to take them for the longest ride of their lives.

parn SG

For God's sake, stop talking trash when you have nothing to offer except poisonous sarcasm in a help request thread.

Still, you had to go such a long way in misinterpreting what he said into "killing is always wrong" and bring up a whole load of meaningless religious arguments. What on Earth is your problem?

Dear TS,

What I've mentioned was the truth, too bad for you if you chose to deny them because you rather die than to agree with me when you know what I wrote was right.

Poor thing... you need to create this pathetic account for your cowardly posts.

Take at look at yourself.

parn SG

REALLY? WHERE IS YOUR SINCERITY ADVICE THEN?

WA KAO...JUST ANOTHER BLOODY CLONE TO PROVE TO ME THAT MANY SINGAPORE GUYS ARE COWARDLY WUSS!

Demon Bane SG

I'm talking about my GOD and those unchristian gods, not those unholy followers.

Jesus Christ have never stained or commit murder to kill anyone.

Oic. Okay. Good point.

whattodo? SG

Wa lao. like i said, if you don wan to help than clam mouth shut lah. This is aunt agony for people to talk about their agony. TS want to mention sorrow, you don wan to see sorrow, then YOU DON COME TO AUNT AGONY YOU MORON! Hijack people thread to talk about sh!t things like instigating murder only, religion blah blah blah still wan to blame peep for YOU STARTING A FIGHT IN SOMEWHERE INAPPROPRIATE. Sorry, don say we we we. We got heart and conscience one. NOT LIKE YOU. TS say everything you all DON BOTHER TO READ, then U COME AND BLAME TS. Your parents will be ashamed of you, where got people like you one. I don't think you even understand what sorrow is lah, you only think about YOU YOU YOU. Like you know what EVERYBODY do when they are close to suicide like that. Go see doctor for narcissism lah. What? Don know what narcissism is? Why don't you go back and study idiot??? Who let this maddog out? SOCIOPATH BETTER KEEP OUT OF AUNT AGONY! Someone block this idiot. Call police come to this thread. Got people instigate murder!!! Maybe can even help out TS somemore.

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