Did the situation become very tensed after what your friend
said?
If no, then i think it's you who is actually over-reacting, it
might be a stupid lame ass comment from your friend who didn't mean
it. Sometimes you just blurt out some lame reply towards someone
but you don't mean it. And you don't expect a person to think about
what you said for 1 month 20 hours 12 seconds.
If yes then you should have a change of friends lol, from what i
see you've elitist friends, and it gets very tiring if you've
elitist thinking friends cause you get mentally tired, even
chatting with them.
Hmmm, yeah they become suddenly quiet... but i will prefer the
first one rather than the second... i will prefer that it is me who
is over-reacting...