Dear Karrietay,
Thank you for sharing your problems with us. Here's my two cent
worth.
I believe it turn out this way because of several reasoning.
Below are my points :
1) Demand not fufilled.
Very often, this is the case when most couples are quarreling
about. My demand is not fulfilled by you, and your demand is not
fulfilled by him.
2) Power struggle
The struggle for power in the relationship is also what makes it
turn ugly and upset. Each of you want to take control of one
another. If he fails to get what he wants, he will express it in
various form of channels (e.g. facebook, anger, coldness) just to
prove to you that he's in control. It is also way of expressing
emotions.
Don't worry girl, I can tell your still young. In life, you sure
can find someone that loves you as much as you love him. The timing
is just not right. When you grow older, the meaning of 'Love'
changes as well. When we are young, we think of love as a romantic
relationship with the person we love. As we grow older, love is
much more complicated and has a more deeper meaning like comittment
etc.
Best Regards,
Chin Seng
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