If you hit your late 20s you will realise that friendship serve
very little purpose.
Here is one case: I have a friend who I know for 20 years. We
grew up together go to same school and went study overseas
together. 7 years ago when he wanted to commit suicide because
his ex left him, I was there for him to be a friend. Now he found a
new gf and remarried. But he never invited me to his wedding. Worse
still, last week was his birthday, I text him happy birthday, but
he never reply nor acknowledge my reply. One day I saw him, I ask
him why he didn't reply me, he say he was "lazy". Rude and arrogant
of him isn't it? So what is value of friendship?
After that incident and many others, I learn to be more self
centred and don't care anymore about other people.
All i can say is your friend is a bastard and also self-centered
like you but he was self-centered earlier than you perhaps. Maybe
he did not treat you like a close friend but to you he was a close
friend? I think to me girlfriend better ba. Family and friends when
they busy with Ns, school, work, then they also heck care you de.
At least girlfriend even though busy with this still will find you
when she is free. Can depend on her presence more than other ba.
For me i think is like that la. I mean everyone has different
friends, family, g/bf.