scaredy cat

last SG · 2010-09-19T00:32:26+00:00

lol we shld take this to crap boxnext time discuss with u some moreWe are hijacking this thread...I am just a beginner in this field of study...

shugasweet SG

ever felt like you dare not love when love slowly creeps in?

ever felt a little disappointed when he isnt what you hoped he was?

ever felt lost about whether you should move ahead and try or stop yourself from falling for him?

gunner77 SG

Bus&Soccer l0v3r (VO3x 1) SG

charlize SG

Nobody can live on love and fresh air alone.

No money, no honey.

Times are bad.

Simple_Bear SG

Yes

TTFU SG

shugasweet SG

so many no-s.

i am a real scaredy cat.

dangerboi SG

grow up..wake up...In this SG, most love stories exist only in films

gunner77 SG

so many no-s.

i am a real scaredy cat.

Yes.

now you have a 'yes'.

shugasweet SG

thanks gunner, if yes was truely ur answer.

hmm, i dont think it has anything to do with being singaporean or not.

to be blunt about it, its just im starting to develop feelings for a guy i think does not meet my standards. its not about the physical appearance or superficial wealth. its... there are certain qualities i look for in a guy that he does not have.

and im afraid of another failed relationship.

TTFU SG

thanks gunner, if yes was truely ur answer.

hmm, i dont think it has anything to do with being singaporean or not.

and im afraid of another failed relationship.

Hi, seems like you have this problem all along. I will say let things run natural first and see if you really like this guy, and also observe how he treats you. Dont be afraid, bad things dont good, good things wont come

CutePenguin SG

ur hormones has problems , seek professional help

Simple_Bear SG

thanks gunner, if yes was truely ur answer.

hmm, i dont think it has anything to do with being singaporean or not.

and im afraid of another failed relationship.

If you are afraid of a failed relationship, there won't be any chance of a successful one...

shugasweet SG

i knew him since july from school and we never had anything for each other.

it was over the past week that i started feeling different about us, and i can feel that its the same for him.

too sudden, too unexpected.

i dont know how to react.

ahjenn SG

the ego ("me") in TS is still strong

shugasweet SG

ego?

im not sure how its linked.

darkhour SG

the thing is feelings cannot b explained thru whether he is 'ur standard' or not...u cant just judge whether u r going to like a person thru whether he fits ur 'list of standards'...

btw if i may ask, what exactly didnt he meet?

littlemissbonkers SG

ego?

im not sure how its linked.

it's psychology

shugasweet SG

he is more of a happy go lucky person, with not much aim in life. i know that it is probably what makes him such a cheerful guy but then again, i think it is important for me to see his directions.

im not judging him from my lists of standards, i do not have such a list. im just afraid, i dont know of what.

LonelyApple SG

cant differentiate b/w love and crush. nv been in love sadly. dunno what kinda standards you've set.. it's weird. . like you dont like his style yet you like him.