2 days ago while toking to my mum i jking say if aunt is meeting
u can i tag along so maybe got chance i will have a gd treat from
her since i finish exam on that day..in a very joking manner…my
bro..ki siao and yell saying i sound like a begger who go around
begging for treat, after all the bla bla he turn to insult my
friend saying its becoz of them i become so thick skin and keep
asking for money which i didnt!! he also keep emphazing the word
begger n thicked skin, hinting that my fren is low class…wats the
prob with him?jk nia he must like that yell n insult me?am i wrong
to make a joke?i feel that any topic that is related to money will
make him excited and he will start yelling at insult ppl..i need
advice on shutting him up next time..
angry!!!
It's true that you should ignore him so that you will feel better
next time.
But on the other hand, have you thought that perhaps your "joke"
is offensive to your brother?
I believed your brother cared alot for you and he is concerned
about your mindset and your attitude towards life.
I can tell you that it really hurts your brother to hear his
sister saying something shamelessly like what you have said. I'm
sorry to tell you this, but it is very ungraceful for girls to
express herself in a greedily, or in an exploitive manner, or even
to hint to another person for a treat or jokingly ask another
person to buy something for her.
Have some class of your own and always maintain a certain grace,
especially when you're not alone. (I don't care if you have to dig
your nose privately in your own bedroom behind closed
doors)
It's not about doing it for your brother or for anyone else. As
a girl, it is important for you to have your own class and
grace. Because that's our prenatal rights. 
