It is not about 'fishes' out
there, but the right fish to swim with.
I would always says start out as
frenzs first, know each other likes and dislikes. Until you can do
that then you can decide to go one step further. Many are
caught in the infatuation syndrome (at least I call it so) not
knowing if there is space to move forward. When she blabber
in drunkard state, do you listen to her truth of the matter? I
believes if you can resolve those matter, you can make her more
happy and her less turning to alcohol. With that she may sees
the caring you and things might turn around. The old saying
it takes two hands to clap, but also it takes each other hand
to slap. So choose one.
what do you mean by the sentence
"The old saying it takes two hands to clap, but also
it takes each other hand to
slap." your english quite
weird