Job Agony - please advise me

parn SG

Hi All,

I'm contemplating on quitting my job which i have worked for four months. However, i will like to seek a second opinion.

1) Incident 1: Last week, "A-person" send an email accusing me of something and the way he wrote was very nasty. This incident really make me very angry till today. However, i cannot confront him on the matter or clarify it in email due to several complications.

2) Incident 2: I have told "A-person" the reason why i didn't pick up his call last Saturday because i was on course. But on last Friday, "A-Person" told me that "he don't care." and expected me to go down to settle this Saturday. In my opinion and in my industry, no one (in my position) actually need to go down for such a trival matter. After the phone conversation, i'm really piss off because according to my contract i don't work on weekend and the way he said "he don't care".

3) Incident 3: He is very cunning. He never stated things black and white but only give verbal suggestion. So If anythings went wrong, it will still go back to me. The best thing is he will forget what he says and give another direction which is really making things difficult.

4) He don't trust people and so he insist that i have to go down. Indirectly, I'm overload. Then i start to taichi abit. But i feel i'm already burn-out and losing my patience. I don't have time and energy to do what i should do and he can bit me back.

I will like to ask : if you are in my shoes, will you quit or will you endure for a few more months? But i have to look for a new job and i'm lost in what i should do.

1) Ignore incident 1, if you don't have the mind to do anything, then there is nothing you can do to feel better about it.

2) If you know that you shouldn't be workin on Saturday, then don't work on Saturday. Why trouble yourself with people who "don't care"? If you have the resolve to quit your job, then you have nothing to lose if you don't turn up on Saturday.

3) You should worry more about what you want and who you are. Don't focus on other people because they are up to no good.

4) Make up your mind if you really have nothing to lose, it doesn't matter already at this stage.

Do whatever makes you the most happy and stay true to yourself. Whatever happens, you can be glad that you have made your stand in life.

AugustSky SG

TS....

Goodness your 1st post and 2nd post required 180 degree response.....in the first place i suggest you asked yourself why are you in the industry!!!! He is your "Client"

I shall answer your question in 4, 3, 2,1

4) if your client don't trust other people and insist you to go along that is because he placed his trust on you and your client is "paying you for the service" You are an idiot to "Tachi" under his noise. instead of looking how to improve your efficiency you waste your energy on how to GET OUT.....

HAHA.. your intepretation is too true too be good.

3) Your client project manager give verbal instruction so you reply by E-mail as referred to our phone conversation these are your understanding of the instruction bla bla bla............copy your supervisor and his supervisor cover your ASS. protect your Company Interest. hello.....u got wake up or NOT????

Wtf screw u lah. You don't know shit.

2) Solved the problems first before going in to address expectation of scope of services but YOU CAN ALWAYS CHARGED OVERTIME. How do you turned down a paid client? When you take up a project management post? There is no such thing as a "Fuck Care" mentality.

I have no OVERTIME.

1) never put your emotion in front of others, Coolness will give you political advantage when you need it. You can always response by e-mail in steps and point regards to your client discontent of service and what solution you provide.

Theory based.

likeyou SG

Dont quit, if you do, means you cannot tehan him.

If he tends to forget what he said, going forward, tell him no mail to work. Ask him for mail before you take action.

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