Male/25/Undergrad
for the past 2.5 years of studies i've been doing full time work
and studying on a part-time basis. Thus i nv took any money since
roughly 5 yrs ago (ns plus 2.5) from my mum except for the tuition
fees. But since i approaching my last semester i really think of
enjoying my sch life(cca etc etc). so i quit my job. Then no more
income and not much saving as i was working as a temp so the pay
also just enough to survive.
now monthly i need take about 1k(due to high overheads, poly
giro payment, ortho) from my mum. Then usually she only give
me the money after i asked her. (she wont automatically monthly
xfer). When she xfer the money she only put half($500). Then i take
the money pay credit card bills. Before the 1st week is over
the $500 all gone. Then i have to go to her again.
Its not as though we are from a poor family, we live in landed
property with 4 cars at home. But we are not very wealthy also. I
dont know how to make her understand. She's been doing this xxxx up
thing since poly. Everytime she give half then say if i finish tell
her. WTF ~ . All my sibings did their college overseas, only for me
i doing it local. I still remember how my mom would promptly
send them money. And when they ask for more, she will still xfer
over.
