When one is committed to love as opposed to a person - it makes
a difference and that is whether it works or not no one comes away
feeling ''lousy''.
Of course, it presupposes one is fulfilled within oneself before
one can share and yet partake of another.
Love is not bad lah, it is the needs/expecations pretending to
be love.
Love that transcends fear and reasons (to love) never diminishes
oneself and the other.
When the reason is there to love, once that reason is fulfilled
it the demise of the relationship or what-have-you. One is left
with a hollow and empty shell of what can be a blissful
journey!