Hi again guys ^^
Last few weeks, i started to develop a feeling on this guy but
he has a girlfriend. I know this is so wrong but hey, if that
person is in your eyes, u still like him whether he's having a
relationship or not true? anyway, yes i started to like REALLY like
this guy but his girlfriend is one of my friends too.
ok here where the problem started, Previously these few days we
started to get the talking and one thing let to another we joke
around then into deep stuff and such. Well, we were all drunk that
night so ya its normal right? btw his girlfriend who is my friend
too suspect this and she giving me the glare and the "whatever"
look. ok i really dont want her to hate me so i try to avoid her
boyfriend as long as i can till we can be water under the bridge
type.
As times goes by, i think i finally stop having this deep
feelings on him and i feel great. And i thought all is ok but then
i heard the news that he and his girlfriend have broke up. OMG! I
really dont know what to do because i got this strong feeling that
this has me written all over it which is true later on when he
started sms me and stuff then he wants me and him together as a
relationship. I seriously trapped and didnt know what to answer so
i ignore his sms. Then he called so i have to pick up and we talk
and he said that he loves me. omg, he knows i like him too but now
the feeling is gone. But now the feelings of liking him beginning
to rush back to me since he said that. I said give me a few days to
think about it then i answer him.
And the really bad news now is my friend who is his ex, now she
hates me. And i think its because of me and him having feelings to
each other but how she know? i mean like is that the reason of the
whole break up thing?
omg u guys have to give me advices. I indeed need help here. I
dont want to lose my friend i dont want her to hate me but now i
started to have feelings for him who is my friends ex. Please what
should i do?
You are at best, asking the wrong people here. Chances are, in
the past some forumers here may be on the other side of the fence,
being the girl who lost their bf to their best friends. So beware
some opinions may be BIAS.
So your friend hates you? Weigh in your relationship with this
guy, do you think you can have a bright future with him? Now that
he is available? Do you truly believe he sincerely likes you? Do
you think he can take care of you?
Seriously if you have been through school, college, uni and then
working life like me, you will know that many bf-gf relationships
don't last long, people do break up after school or college and
then find their long term mate at work. About only 10% of my
friends from college and uni last to marriage. From school
relationships, its even worse, only 2% lasts till marriage.
Ok, so base on the stats, you are not exactly a home wrecker,
you did not ruin any marriage or any kid's future. So what have you
got to lose? He is available, he is not two timing his gf. Go for
it lar ! Just Do It !
As for your friend's anger, this things are normal, she will
probably hate you or perhaps in later years, she will find a
husband and her anger towards you will tone down. Then that is the
chance for you to reconcile with her. Sometimes, in life is about
risk, are you willing to take the risk?
