First impression is very important. First impression as in the
first sight of the person. You may be a marvellous person with
super good characters, but if your appearance is a turn off, people
will tend to shunt you.
Which guy would not want to have a pretty gf whom they can
proudly show off in front of their friends? Ya I know some fat
girls have bf, and these girls know how to attract guys maybe by
being cute, or being chubby or taking care of their appearance.
We do not know what is ya problem. Is it really because of your
face, with many pimples bursting like volcanoes, or your hair,
which are dry and totally damages, or you dressing like a aunty in
her 40s or you look like a balloon that is going to explode.
May you should try to keep your appearance in check. Dress up
nicely, there are clothes for fat people which are very nice. You
should just try checking them out. Hairstyle is important to a
person, a fat girl with long wavy, curly, rebonded, styled hair can
be very appealing to guys as well. Facial protection is important
to all girls, light make up can make a person very pretty, fake
eyelashes can do the job as well, but it depends on what type of
clothings and ya character as well. The power of make up can be
found online by comparing pre and post makeup images of girls. If
you think you are too fat, then you should exercise as well.
Try putting on some perfumes as well. Girls that smell nice are
very attractive. The smell of a girl is an important criteria in
judging her.
Fat girls can be appealing as well if they know how to make
themselves attractive. I am sure, if you are determined you can do
it as well. There are no ugly girls in the world, only lazy ones.
You can try to put in just that little bit of effort and ya guy
might just appear in front of you.
Alternatively, if you believe in true love as in a guy will love
you for who you are, then you can jolly well wait, who knows there
might really be such a person.
You can go out with other people in a group instead of 1-1 with
a guy. Because, by going out with a guy 1-1 and if that guy does
not like your appearance, then they will feel very embarass
especially in the public. At that moment they care only about
themselves and not you, and they would want to dump you away
ASAP.
Jia you ba and Good Luck. I am sure you would find someone that
appreciates you and more importantly, your other half.
Great advice!
But I hardly think TS would listen. (This is not her 1st thread
about this)
Anyway TS, people can only help and advice you so much. So
instead of whining and complaining, why don't you do something
about it?
By the way, not everyone is born beautiful, most achieve beauty
through hard work. So if you don't want people to be turned off by
your looks then it's high time you start working on it.
PS: You will probably never meet a completely un-shallow guy,
unless you meet a saint, but then again, saints are usually
celibate. Also you need a hell lot of work on your personality
and character to be able to even attract one in the 1st place.
