A guy, named ST working in the military research
agency, who has been dating his gf for several months had a
new female colleague at work. She was young, vivid, lively, bubbly
and quite pretty and sociable. Being her mentor, the guy
had the opportunities to work closely with her, and on some
occasions, do OT.
Within a month, ST started to drift away from his gf. He has
been spending more time at work, and of course, with YY, sometimes
having supper and long coversation with her after work. ST was
attracted to YY and he feels that she is an very eligible and
ideal lady for him. However, he is already attached. Soon, ST begin
to see his gf in a poor light, picking on her, criticising her
looks, and praising YY infront of her.
Within weeks, ST was spending time away from his gf. He decided
to break up with his gf so that he could be single and can woo YY.
But his gf was heartbroken. In his attempt to dump his girlfriend
(adruptly over the phone), he told her he never like her and was
just desperate to find someone to be attached. He said he
would never like her and asked her to find a man who truly loves
her. He even commented that she is fat and unattractive to him, and
he was just pretending to be a nice and dutiful bf to her. He
dumped her over a phonecall, and did not make any attempt to meet
her for a proper break-up or treat her respectfully. He scolded her
over the phone and wanted a quick breakup. The girl was very hurted
and tormented. She felt used and humiliated, that she was treated
without much respect and sincerity. That the r/s was all but a ploy
and that she was only a temporary gf to ST while he continues his
search for his ideal gf.
ST's ex girlfriend never hear from him again until months later,
when ST called her out of the blue. ST called because he wanted a
quick closure so that he can have the peace of mind and heart to
start a brand-new happy r/s with YY. ST's ex girlfriend refused to
speak to him and instead of offering his sincerest apologies, ST
lambasted her and asked her to get a life and move on. ST made her
feel even worse.
It has been years and the ST's ex gf is still nursing over her
emotional scars and feeling deeply hurted and humiliated. She
doesnt believe in true love anymore and feels that she would never
be treated sincerely and with respect. On the other hand, ST is
enjoying his blossoming r/s with YY and is making quick plans
for a marriage soon. All along, he has never feel guilty or
remorseful for his action. He had never understand the real damage
he has done to his ex-girlfriend but was happy he has made a firm
decision to settle for YY instead. He never apologise. ST's ex
girlfriend felt like an object, he never care for her feelings and
dump her away like a junk, never taking into consideration her
feelings and hurted her with awful and hurtful remarks to dump
her.
In case you wonder this is a fictional story, this is a true
story.. ST might be your colleague. What do you tink of such a
guy?
the ex-gf should move on....what is she expecting?An apology?It
will not happen so she might as well carry on with life...
the guy?well...screwed up guy...want to break also no need to
insult people...the ex gf should be happy that it happened before
marriage...
