which part of my entry says i am controlling my OLDER bro?and
moreover are you trying to imply that whatever your siblings does,
you do not have the right to tell them from right and wrong?because
it's ur parent's job?rubbish..if i really want to control my family
they would have done it my way LONG ago...apparently i just want
them to know what is happening in the house...for in case some take
it for granted while some just can't be bothered...and i feel it's
not very good that my bro brings her gf back and close the
door..finish their business and left...before they left my silly
mother still must lay the dish and wait for them to eat..finish
eating still must clean up for them while they just left the
house..sometimes without even saying goodbye..i dont do that when i
bring my partner home...my bf will scold me if i do that!
hahaha
Even if you want to control your family, you can't. So don't
paint yourself to be so high and mighty lah.
Sure, you can suggest to your brother, have a chat, but if he
doesn't care to listen to you, there's nothing you can do , except
come here and rant about it.
You can try talking to your parents, but you can't make them
control your brother if they don't see the need to either.
Your parents may have their own reason for allowing your brother
do what he did with his gf.
You only have a narrow view and cannot see the bigger picture.
That's too bad.
If your brother wants to get intimate with his gf, and your
parents chased them out, they are just gonna do it some where
else.
Maybe in a sleazy hotel . Or if he is broke, they'd be doing it
in a park, in the backseat of their vehicle, somewhere where he can
get caught and put into lockup. Is that more embarrasing for your
parents to bail him out of the police station , or is it better
they let him do what he wants at home ??
At home, your parents know who he's going it with, what kind of
girl he is dating, at least your parents know he is not out there
somewhere getting into more serious trouble.
How your brother behaves is not your parent's main concern. It
seems his behavior is affecting only you.
If your parents mind, they'd have told him off themselves. If
they don't and they choose to enable his behavior, then it's your
parents' choice to let it become so.
You on the other hand needs to back off and go mind your own
business. OK ? Good.
