guys, would u not go for a girl just because her normal looks
are not up to your personal (relatively high) standards? Its like I
keep telling myself, must see the girl inner character becos when
one gets old, even the most beautiful woman will also become an old
woman with wrinkles, whats left is her character inside. But then
another voice tells me physical beauty is quite impt too. Its like
2 diff drastic opinion.
So, those guys who is currently in a serious long-term
relationship or married. Can pls give ur views on such matters?
both are important but my advice is to place more emphasis on
inner beauty.
even if you manage to get a beautiful girl, your interest in her
will drop once you start to see her ugly side.
in terms of looks, as long as its acceptable it should be ok for
most men. once you get to know her better and you see her inner
beauty, your interest in her will increase over time. if you do not
even find her looks acceptable to your own standards, do not waste
your time on her.
whether you like it, most beautiful girls have serious lack of
inner beauty, because all the guys they have been with have spoilt
them by catering to them too much. the guys have trained them to
expect to be treated like a princess. if she could get her way all
the time just by being pretty, why would she want to do anything
for the guy?
of course there are also beautiful women with great inner
beauty, but they are a rare breed.
read my article 'is she wife material' to get a better idea of
exactly what type of inner beauty should men look for in a long
term partner.
