guys, would u not go for a girl just because her normal looks
are not up to your personal (relatively high) standards? Its like I
keep telling myself, must see the girl inner character becos when
one gets old, even the most beautiful woman will also become an old
woman with wrinkles, whats left is her character inside. But then
another voice tells me physical beauty is quite impt too. Its like
2 diff drastic opinion.
So, those guys who is currently in a serious long-term
relationship or married. Can pls give ur views on such
matters?
When I was young, looks were the priority. As I got older,
personality. I know good looking women who abuse their
bf/husband.... just because they have the looks and the partner is
afraid to lose them. Sad cases.
Personally as long as the woman is pleasant and isn't overtly
fat... I'm cool with it.
Let me put it to you this way. In a sexual context its not worth
alot. Think about the pretty girls you see along your famous red
light districts... how much do they charge?
Now think of it the other way. A girl with the correct
personality.... that is a lifelong investment.
Try and find a balance between the 2 and you'll be happy. If
you're young you'll tend to tip towards physical beauty more. Its
normal.... because there are not much worries. When you are in the
working world and starting to get serious about your investments
and family.... and trying to find work/life balance.... you'll tip
towards personality.
Kind Regards
Genie
Kind Regards
Genie