Why i'm doing this?

Doom995 SG

isit how i feel this way as a prisoner? i never think of this...thanks i will ask and convince her.

DRC SG

1) i agree with you that you are bored with life..but life is something about choices that we make, I cannot teach you what I have been through but love is something you got to learn and experience it yourself.

2) Lets change the story abit, your gf asked you to stop coming to her house, she lied to you that she is sleeping at home but in fact was out partying with guys and had one night stand with them..

How would you feel if one day you saw your gf having sex with another guy behind the bushes near your house? Before you say it never happens, I got a friend whose gf did just that and he thought she was a good gal. She got pregant with another guy's baby and got the guts to force my friend to accept the baby was his. I was so mad at her that I slap her for what she is doing my friend and shouted at her for being so heartless for treating my friend as a dumping ground. She was so scared that she ran away.

3) For first time relationship like yours is easier to stray cos you are not ready to settle down for one gal. Is tough so if you do not think you can just go on with your current life is best to let her go.

4) My suggest is this, take one month away from her no contact, no meeting I seriously mean totally nothing at all with her. This will test yourself if you truly in love her or is time to leave her. If after 1 month you cannot bear the heart pain and go back to her that means she meant something in your heart. If not you are ready to go.

littlemissbonkers SG

here's the long and short of it...

you're an asshole... stop tormenting and leading on this girl... let her go find someone who is worthy of her affections..

go figure out why you are an asshole until you can and do change for the better before inflicting yourself on another woman..

My sentiments exactly

Simple_Bear SG

TS, let the poor gal go since you don't love her already.

Fenixx SG

My point of view is different from the above. I think you should just hang on, until you can't anymore cause you might regret in the future. There are unlimited girls out there for you to dance, kiss, even have intercourse with. But to find the one that treats you really well.

Its kinda difficult. Just hang on like how i did. Of course you can fool around, who doesn't :p but just don't breakup with her, learn to tell what's mainstream and whats just for fun.

Another selfish motherfucking bastard...........

Lorry` SG

What you should do:

1. Stop staying over at her house.

2. Go back to your house.

3. Stop acc her to go work. Shes big enough to do it herself.

4. Go hangout with ur frends after work. No need to meet her every night after work.

5. Since u work 6 days per week, use that off day to hangout with her. For other nights, use it for friends/family/yourself. Or alternately, meet her.

Problems:

1. You said your afraid she will miss u dats why u chose not to go home? Thats only your thinking right? Or did she tie u up and ask u not to go? Is she a very possessive girl? Thats not very healthy either if it is true.

2. Meeting up every day is a big problem. Why? Cuz seeing her face every day will tend to get bored easily. It's like eating the same dish every day. I suggest not to meet up every day. Meet like max 3 times a week can already.

3. Go clubbing issue. Why must lie to her? Is she the homely type? or Insecure? Protective? Did you try to ask her along?

4. Friends issue. You seem to know her friends well, since yall meet up every day. On the other hand, does she know your friends well? I suppose not. Wanna try introducing your friends to her, maybe next time when go clubbing she will be more fang xin.

Blah blah blah, all in all, your life is TOO routine, and because you face her EVERY DAY, thats why got problems.

Still confuse over your feelings towards her? Try moving out and staying at your own house starting from next week, then see how. You need to break the routine first. No need to meet every day.... With today's technology, got webcam, phone, msn, etc. Although the physical thing isnt there la. I think webcam is good but dont webcam every day cuz later kena same problem again.

Hope this help.

DailyFreeGames.com SG

your gf is wife material. the girl you pick up from the club, that’s gf material. lol.

i think let the girl go if you think you can’t do your part. her youth is important. if you hang on until she’s old, harder to find bf, then even worse.

Fire Cracker SG

hey she got poly diploma soon. she got future. she can have good man to be with her.

TS. admit it, you got no future. u already Fark her and ruined her bad enough. it's time to leave her and let good people have her.

You say you don't Fark and throw. but I ask you. if you don't fark and throw why you say you BORED and want to leave her? why u got hanky panky with another lady ?

I bet you cum in her almost time and your plan is to make her pregnant and dump her.

sergex SG

if youre already accompanying your gf so much and you cant decide on whether to continue to stay in the relationship with her or leave her for another girl then i guess like some other forumite think, you are not ready for any relationship. maybe you can take some time to think @ the same time accompany your family members more and cherish your precious time with your family members the next time you commit to another relationship , i hope.

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