Err I not talking abt myself - talking about it theoretically that
usually people, due to their negative experiences, tend to protect
themselves with shells. Thus, it makes it hard to see the goodness
they have inside and hard to see the goodness in each
other - but it doesn't mean it isn't there, but need more
practice in observing.
Err my point being that I agree with you - that people should
try and see goodness in others and not give up on other people too
easily.
My apologies. Thought you're referring to yourself. hehe...
Of course, it takes practice, and effort, as it's often so much
easier to just critisize people than compliment people (genuinely).
But it'll definitely pay off for you and people around you. :)
People who often have behavioural or personality issues, usually
have a root cause that started the whole thing, way back in their
past, either childhood times, or even past lives. So, it's not
always fair to blame people for the way they are now, as often,
they really can't help it, as it has gone into their subconscious
mind. Actually, this affects almost everyone, whether we realise it
or not.
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