Yosh all,
Ok. Me and my friends were all like one family now. We enjoy
each other company now. Even my facebook, i put whole bunch of my
friends names under my siblings category haha. Ok one day, i wanted
to watched a movie and my friends agree to watch it with me about 3
of them since its their free time on that day which is wednesday.
Once we enter the movie theatre i sit beside in between my friends.
the left of me is a girl and the right one is a guy.
ok i think this is where the situation starts, u see i sit
beside my guy friend and since we all like family, we all like to
fool around (and no, he's not from that "irritating fellow leh"
thread). In mid movies, i want to go to toilet and he wants to buy
some drinks so we left together then return. We like chat here and
there and joke around. While we wait for the queue to buy drinks,
we really talk alot haha. It's really fun to accompany him. Then
after that, we return to the movie. Even after the movie, we play
around each other and he just broke off with his gf so he feel abit
sad so i ask him out to KFC just a two of us to cheer him up abit
and he really enjoy it. Thats the day 1.
Now day 2, he beginning to act strange. Whenever im around him
like in the same room and such, he would just like trying to avoid
me and its been like 3 days. And finally he talk to me, he wants to
go out with me, just two of us again. And yes, i just accept
it.
Then now the date comes, is just me and him and everytime im
trying to talk to him, he just like emo-ish. And i said "whats
wrong?" from there on, he began serious. And he talk to me, said
that how long we know each other and such. Then he confess that he
love me. omg. i thought he's joking, but i knew then from his eyes,
he's really not kidding. He really love me. as in like fall in
love. i was stunned literally. Then i said to him that i dont want
to ruin our friendship because of this so yeah, it will be better
off if we just remain friends and he took that not so lightly. So i
just hug him as to present my forgiveness.
Day 3, i thought everything went ok but its kinda get worse.
Everytime im in the same room as him, he would just say to me hi
and smile then like trying to walk away. similar what happen
before. He's trying to avoid me and i knew it. And everytime i want
to strike a conversation with him, he would just give me a few
sentence with his nervous speech like for example, "uhh... u know..
uhhh.... uhh". Which never happen to him before. i really like him
not in the love way but i enjoy being his friends now its like
awkward.
please, i really in need of help. i know that this is too hard
to believe but pretend this is some sort of drama ok and u write
the script of a happy ending and post here. please i really hate to
see him like this. please advice?
If he's emo-ish about it, that's normal.
If you want him to recover fast fast, then you need to drag
yourself and ask him out together with you ALONE, act normally
towards him ... hit him playfully *necessary to bring him out of
his emo-shit cos guys just like it when we behaved closely towards
them*
You need to un-awkward yourself first before you can do the same
to him. No point falling into emo-ish yourself then you got two
emo-ish people...cos that might make him think that you're also
troubled because you are confused and can't bring yourself to face
the fact that you also likes him.
When he's happy and no longer emo-ish, you can then become
emo-ish and thank him for his confession but let him know that you
need him to be someone better than a boyfriend. Just give him some
title such as "saviour" or "protector" because guys likes to
receive such titles to feed their hungry hungry ego shit.
Then continue your friendship to him as usual and pay concern
for him once in a while over smses/phonecalls and continue to hang
out with him like best of pals.
Guys are stupid, so you must be clever if not how are you going
to rulez them in your lives? 
They are clever only when we allowed them to do so.
