I am a 24 year old girl in the office. I am a bit petit and a
bit overweight but I have a lot of friends. Recently the company
hired this 30 year old single guy to the office. He is nice and
quiet person. Me and my lady friends want to get his attention but
the ladies in the office want to help me to go after him.
He is average looking but I am desperate. At first I try
talking to him and he seem nice. I also invited him to join us to
disco and to the pub to drink. He always decline my offer. Make me
so angry. I try to be nice to him but he only give me one word
answer. I think he is playing harder to get. How come I got so many
friend girl and guy but this guy is so lukewarm to me?
So, I get the co-worker around to gang up on him. We purposely
boycott him to make him angry. When we go out lunch we purposely
avoid him because we want to punish him for rejecting my
invitation. I want to get closer to him but he always stay away.
Why? Then when we see him come to the office, he greet us good
morning, we purposely ignore him. Then we plan in such way, that
when I come I purposely say good morning very loud and I behave
very chirpy. All the co-worker greet me and we make a lot of joke
so that he can hear us. This way, he will feel marginalised and we
can force him to come to me. We also organise a lot of birthday
cake function but we purposely don't want to call him so we
celebrate among ourself. But until now, he still keep quiet and
don't want to socialise with me. Why?
I want to disturb him and give him chance to date me. Why he
cannot see my good character? THe whole office support me and we
got so many parties but still he show no reaction. I am so
frustrated.
Then I get a manager to cause trouble with him. I know he needed
to work closely with that manager to get his work done. So I get
the manager to purposely talk very sarcastic at him and delay his
work and make him suffer. That day, he got into a big argument with
the manager because the manager cause delay to his work and the
manager spoke very rudely to him. Good, now he is agitated. So at
the company canteen I purposely chose the time he always go to
lunch alone (since we boycott him), and when he is there, I
purposely sit there alone eating lunch to invite him to eat with
me. But he still go to the other table. So frustrating. Why?
What should I do to get his attention? He is trying to play
harder to get or is he not interested? If he is not interested, I
want face. I am losing face, I feel ashame at being rejected by
this guy. I must win ! But he is so strong, he keep on showing no
reaction. He is so invincible, I cannot get across to him. How
now?
