easy for you to say....like you stated to me in the president
thread, u pity those gals who have been liked/dated by me. and yet
down here you say be yourself for who you are...am in not being my
own self? Or ur implying that i fake a lot here? be honest just
tell me
even hitler(one of your worst villians), mussolini(fat bloke)
also got people to love them because they got the wealth
and power...isn't this you are trying to get across all
the while?
Why don't you go and consult your harem of advisors instead?
The fact that for two people to come together, they must first
like each other enough to compromise themselves to be on the same
frequency with one another.
You just need to find someone who shares similar values as you,
because if you need to change your own values to accomodate and
convince that someone that you like her because you are on the same
frequency as her, then you are not being true to yourself and to
her.
So you need to seek and find someone with the same
mentality and values and attitude towards life as yourself.
Hitler may be projected as a villian, but if even he can find
love in his lifetime, it also means that there's some goodness
about him that his loved ones appreciates him for who he is.
You know Hitler for what he did, but do you know him for what he
didn't do? He could've done alot worse knowing the evil is
boundless and depthless in human hearts.
Don't restrict yourself on how you are going to live your life.
People will always
misjudge/persecute/critcise/condemn/discourage/scare/threaten/scold
you no matter how hard you try to be good and better.
The key is to believe in yourself and do not believe in others.
The more you believed in others, the worse life you are going to
end up living in.
People can do you WRONG, but as long as YOU DO NOT DO THEM
WRONG, you will be able to rise up against them and climb over them
to reach your destination in life.