Hi people, i need some mature advice from forum's guys and gals.
As i am feeling very vex and confuse right now and don't really
know how to handle it.
There is this guy in my office, who has just join us a month
ago. And we actually hit it off quite well, He will actually made
attempt to tell me his lifestyle, past relationship and when we
went out he would take care of me "buy food / drinks etc.. for
me.
recently over the sms during the chat unwittly, he asked if i
like him ? But the 2nd sentences was " Better not, i will avoid you
if you do" i asked why did he ask that ? he said it was human
instincts.
when i press further how he felt for me " his responds was " you
are comfortable to be with, but to get together and be together is
different. And we are not suitable."
So i told him, i have interest initially but then lied to him
that after knowing him i dnt coz of his lifestyle doesn't fit into
mine.
(i said that because he say if i confess he will avoid me)
humh...
now after few weeks, things get into confusing stage.
We have been exchanging sms these few weeks during the nite, he
also will unwittly tell me where he is or reaches home late. i am
puzzle by his respond. He is interested in me or not ?
Arrhh...
Last night he told me he is looking for companion and marriage
to talk about that later..
(the statement was a general statement, and i am not sure if its
meant for me ?)
I doesn't want to go into a companion mode with him not knowing
if it will lead me to no where ? Or should i go into
companion mode with him, and develope relationship from there
? he keep telling me he is free during weekend, and with the
workload and OT quite difficult for him to find GF and maint one
relationship..
Arrhh.. i am confuse.. Help me pls..
Easy, change your focus completely to another guy friend and start
to go for lunch with that new guy friend.
Then have fun seeing how your "cool" guy crumbles...
If you suspects he isn't true to you, then you are probably
right.
Guys who are true to you, will always remain true to you and not
go to shoutbox and talk nonsense about you when they think you're
not logged on. (example)
So many guys out there, so don't be afraid to strike them out if
they failed to catch one ball.
