shall i call them and ask them to drop what i last asked for
? or keep quiet and hope that they won't call back
? what if they really come back and give me the higher pay
?? how should i turn them down AGAIN tactfully without
sounding like i am playing them out ?
I think you should just wait and see.
If you have better offers while you wait for their response..
they can't blame you for rejecting their offer anyway.
But you do come across as a person who is flaky.. that's not a
good trait in any employee.
I suggest you don't join the company purely because of the
people. because people come and go, this human factor is highly
variable. Today you may not like the new management , few years
later.. the people may turnover and a new group will replace the
old.
What are important, are you happy with the work you do, the
remunerations must be equitable and do you see a potential for a
long term career in this company.