Wife buy property with another man

Hello Kitty SG

Funny that you raised your point like that jojobeach. Don't think I sounded like I'm rejoicing in this dilemma. Or whether if it is me or or as a 3rd person perspective, would it matter?

Just trying to get honest opinions here. Glad to say indeed there are the helpful ones among the critics.

ppl normally ignore her existence.

all marital woes hit her raw nerve.

Hamsterbaby SG

Try to get her Pregnant again, and push her down the stairs 9 months in to labour if what you said is true.

If she can't give birth anymore just inject some Aids virus into her while she is in deep sleep and watch the drama unfold between her and her current boyfriend

[email protected] SG

Your wife change jobs, works late into the nights nowadays, saying a lot of meetings with clients.

Then one day, your letterbox recieved lawyer letters addressed to her and another man. Found out that its documents to buy a property under both their names without your knowledge.

But you pretend you don't know the contents and ask her what is it. She says oh it's some legal docs drawn up for contract for some work she is helping the client with.

Is this ground to divorce her for infidelity although no proof of cheating? Maybe she just investing but didn't want the spouse to know her investments?

What is your opinion?

Hire private investigator. Once evidence is gathered, the next course of action should be quite clear.

jojobeach SG

ppl normally ignore her existence.

all marital woes hit her raw nerve.

HK, Marital woes are never one sided. Do your research before you make accusation.

I would very much appreciate you stop pretending to be a female.

I have friends who are gays and trannys, but I really can't seem to like you at all.

jojobeach SG

Hello to all,

i'm not a frequent here,but i do read the forum quite often.

i realized that jojobeach jumps in very aggresively defending the women rights very often and labels every man MCP if they oppose to her statement.

just my 2 cents worth, there must be something wrong with the wife here. it'd be good if the husband hires a PI to investigate on her.

my dear jojo,

i'm not implying that as a married couple they must report to each other what they do. but with due respect, they should at least open up their plans to their spouse. and as for this case, it is very obvious that the wife is hiding something.

and whatmeworry is just voicing out his opinions. nothing wrong with that, it doesn't matter whether he is in the situation or he is just spectating it as a friend. he would be able to provide good advices to his friend or whoever it is to him then.

by providing concrete statements and constructive comments is what would be of help here to the poor couple. this kind of marriage is a 100% broken marriage. switch this situation around, if this case is where the guy are buying property in joint name with another woman, how would you be reacting? no offense intended.

Mr Orgasmic, do you have a daughter or a sister you dearly love ?

If you do, may I ask, do you jump to her defence whenever some male scum buckets calls her sluts and bitches , or do you stay on the sideline enjoying the show ?

I am a woman/female, I notice so many guys are quick to point fingers at the other gender whenever there are issues they cannot resolve. In AA, it's usually with regards to relationship and/or marital woes.

Communication is the key to a fulfilling marriage, (not just a long and boring one.)

Unfortunately, many guys here simply go " You woman, respect the dick." Then they wonder why they are not getting any lovin from em wifeys. Duh ~

Now, joke aside..

If you haven't notice, there are a lack of female posters here who are willing to speak up for the gf/wifes because many males will try their very best to silence one who does.

If you also havn't notice, I do also side with the guys when the girl/wife is unreasonably wrong.

However, how many guys you see sides on the rational , instead of the 'brotherhood" ? None so far. As long as they are guys, they are right , yes ? May I ask, why ? Do guys think that as long as they chide a male, they are essentially slapping their own face ? Is it because they believe that is so because "he has a dick, and I have a dick, therefore, if he is wrong , therefore I must be wrong" kinda thinking ?

As for this TS of this thread, you know jolly well, he/she is a hate monger. Someone who has no true understanding to the marriage. I have heard many gossips and this one sure sounds like a disgruntled mother-in law type who gossips about her son's marriage. Or a jealous siblings/relative no happy with their success.

Being a spectator for advise sake you say ? Read through the entire post again my friend, then you come tell me if TS is just trying to stir shit or is he/she truly in all honesty wanting to provide an UNBIASED advise ?

To answer your question, if my husband purchase a property as investment , I'd be more interested in the legal aspect of the transaction. (instead of bitching about the gender of his business partner). Purchasing a property with another person does not make the asset untouchable to the spouse. The other investor should be more concerned about going into this kind of investment with a married person. So please stop being so ignorant.

Everyone loves conspiracy theory yes ? Now, let me tell you one blatantly ridiculous detail that is hilarious in this conspiracy TS is trying to promote.

If the wife really wants to hide her investment, why in the world would she put her HOME address on the document ?????

Also, I doubt forumers here have ever even tried buying a private property. Buying such a big asset is not like going out with another man to purchase a TV set.

Buying a property require movements of large amount of money. Now where does that comes from ? If it's a loan based investment, banks are not going to hush hush the whole transaction, mind you.

Seriously guys.. please use your brain to think instead of your dick , OK ? Good.

TS is just an ignorant gossiper looking for more gossip fodder, why are you enabling that kind of behavior ? FYI, not everything I post is for women's right, I just like to flush troublemakers like whatmeworry down the toilet.

Now that you guys are feeling like a bunch of Idiots, I suppose the party is over in this thread.. time to go home .. chop chop !

Arapahoe SG

Hello to all,

i'm not a frequent here,but i do read the forum quite often.

i realized that jojobeach jumps in very aggresively defending the women rights very often and labels every man MCP if they oppose to her statement.

just my 2 cents worth, there must be something wrong with the wife here. it'd be good if the husband hires a PI to investigate on her.

my dear jojo,

On your observation on Jolobeach.....I have to totally disagree.....infact i find her/his responses matured and her/his observations quite insightful. Perharps you feel intimadating because most of the time she/he sees beyond whats writen but address the intend.

jojobeach SG

Thank you Arapahoe for being impartial.

However, I do not wish to see you get stoned by your own kind.

If I have to walk this path alone, so be it.

Peace to you brother !

jojobeach SG

Mr Orgasmic.

ONE more detail yah..for amusement sake

The husband must have X RAY eyes to read the letters without OPENING the envelopes ..LOL... yah right..

Pretending he doesn't know the content ??? LOL !!!!! Only a gullible will believe this very hole-ly story.

orgasmic SG