Ts - Intuitively this is your predicament.
Muse over this
A man is at the bar n another man walks up to him n asks
him, "Are you Ernie Smith?"
The man says, 'yes"
The man then says, 'Were you in Boston a few days ago?'
Ernie says, "Just a min," n from his bag takes out a notebook,
turns some pages, and then says, "Yes, I was a few days ago."
The man says, "Were you in rm 5?"
Ernie looks into his notebook n says, "Yes."
The man says, "Did you meet Mrs.Dorothy in rm 6?"
Ernie scans his eyes on his notebook n replies, "Yes."
The man says, "Tell me, did you make love to Mrs Dorothy?"
Ernie looks into notebook again, says, "Yes, I made love to Mrs.
Dorothy."
The man says, "Well, I'm Dorothy's spouse n I don't like it."
Again, Ernie looks in his notebook and utters, "You know, that's
funny. I didn't like it either."
This is what hearing is all about.
One agrees perfectly, but one hears only what one wants to
hear; one
understands only what one wants to understand.
I cannot make you wrong nor can i make u rite. Life is a
flux n it is not cast in stone! That is being un-nice. I
merely offered views and opinions. If it does not resonate of u or
with u lump it.
thank you Fugazzi,i'll take that in mind...=)