How do you "deal" with a person with asperger?
If the person is a transient person, then you deal with him, be
on your way and that is the end of the matter.
But with family, spouse you don't deal with them, you accept
them as they are. You are aware of the situation and accomodate the
person. Lots of patience is needed, and it is often a trying and
frustrating experience, and temper being let loose.
You have said it, "Every individual asperger is
different." So what magic bullet are you expecting that
can help you "deal" with a person with asperger. No two
situations are alike.
You exercise the utmost understanding and maturity with a
seemingly odd person in the family. You grow as a result.
Display espersion and you only end up being bitter and
scornful.