Fall for an attached girl

last SG · 2010-05-12T20:28:45+00:00

how old are u TS? if you've just finished 'your education' (implying the level that you knew you would be satisfied with so far), and you're working and...

Come_5 SG

it's better to how the age of TS, your career prospects before we're able to give a good comment

Concentrate on your studies if you're still young.

dear all,

really appreciate all your feedbacks and advises

i shall give more details...

i am in my mid 20s, finished my degree and is working now

she told me she's unhappy with her relationship for many years due to her bf shortcomings in the relationship. basically the bf takes a "bo chup" attitude towards her and she kept it to herself only until recently before she decided to tell abt it to friends...

she is the kind of guai guai girl whom i think most men will like to have as a wife...

yes i know i might just be a spare tires to her but it really took me so long to find someone i am comfortable with and have that special unexplained feelings...

Just_do_it_lah SG

maybe after you have shagged her (just like the current bf), you also act bo chap... then another sad fellow will open a similar thread.... and get similar ans from us... Unregardless whether you are graduate or not = 2 diff matters... falling for somebody's babe = NO MEANING... hence, it is up to you.. Graduate should utilize the brain to think much better....

TTFU SG

Nan ren bu huai nu ren bu ai, Get it ?

Rooney9 SG

he cant help it lar. the ger is too chio liao. how to resist a girl when the girl looks like lin zhiling?

Just_do_it_lah SG

Nan ren bu huai nu ren bu ai, Get it ?

hahaha... you are damn right...

Just_do_it_lah SG

he cant help it lar. the ger is too chio liao. how to resist a girl when the girl looks like lin zhiling?

can post her pic in this thread and then we will give you PROPER advices.. haha

Rooney9 SG

can post her pic in this thread and then we will give you PROPER advices.. haha

he wont one lar. because he wants to keep the girl to himself. all guys are selfish in this. agreed?

Come_5 SG

bro i'm jus replying to dangerboi question y must you talk until like that, and uni dun teach u abt affairs of the heart too :)

Just_do_it_lah SG

haha... well, do what you think it is best.. she is also dicey whether to jump into the next relationship after committed 4 hours with the current bf... unless the babe of your love get dumped by the current bf... she will stick with him thru out.. hence, you can quickly get your pants up and go for another lady...

dumbdumb! SG

I hate this kind of situations... you shld nt be involved in the first place

Me too. I especially hate cb kias who try to sliding tackle.

All relationships got underlying problems now and then. Doesn't mean it's doomed to fail.

Zhangjf7768 SG

dear all,

really appreciate all your feedbacks and advises

i shall give more details...

i am in my mid 20s, finished my degree and is working now

she is the kind of guai guai girl whom i think most men will like to have as a wife...

yes i know i might just be a spare tires to her but it really took me so long to find someone i am comfortable with and have that special unexplained feelings...

Ermm... I am also a guai guai girl but I find it difficult to get a bf. BUt I am different from the girl. She is attached but I am not.

If you want a girl whom you feel comfortable, there are many. Just that you need to go and know more girls. Forget abut this girl lah. Don't be a bloody Closet Third Party.

SBS2772T SG

chances are if you get a girl this way, be prepared to lose her to another guy the same way

TTFU SG

bro i'm jus replying to dangerboi question y must you talk until like that, and uni dun teach u abt affairs of the heart too :)

Relax pal. Road is tought. Be prepared to get hurted. I need to copy and paste my comments next time.

Fcukpap SG

fark n throw....bowl n bang

Come_5 SG

hi guys

thanks for all the comments and advices, be it good or bad....

i think i know what to do le, jus move on and keep my options open, at the mean time be her best friend (that is what she wants me to)

she told me i will always occupy a special position in her heart, i think that is more than enough... knowing someone really appreciate me

if we are fated to be together, we will eventually.

Come_5 SG

Ermm... I am also a guai guai girl but I find it difficult to get a bf. BUt I am different from the girl. She is attached but I am not.

If you want a girl whom you feel comfortable, there are many. Just that you need to go and know more girls. Forget abut this girl lah. Don't be a bloody Closet Third Party.

are you dropping me a hint??? hahaha...

TooFree SG

4 years is relatively quite long for a relationship in my opinion. I would say it is more appropriate for you to move on and not cling on to your feeling for her.

opeth SG

as long as she is single and not married, u got a chance. heck even if she is married, it wont stop guys from wooing her right?

You are fierce, I like!!!!!!

TS, I support you. Chase the girl of your dreams...

ditzy SG

How come so many 3rd party problems these 2 months huh?

Fugazzi SG

Ts,

Wait or not wait , attached or not attached is not he issue, If u hope to find youself thru her - u are doomed!

Relate and allow things to unfold as they come - it presupposes that u are secure within and in a position to share, partake of and still allow the other to be.

Many make the mistake of confusing attachment with love. Love shares, gives partakes of and still can be alone and if there is a seeking out of another - it is always a sharing.

Attachment is a need(S) masquerading as love. Hence, the wanting to turn it into a relationship. The wanting to possess, the wanting to be fulfilled.

Fear n love cannot co-exist - one has to go!

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