An alternative thinking to TS Question......
i copies 2 views from the top..... I think both extreme views
hold truth.
Are you kidding? In most cases i think SG is the disease,
the cause of your depression and social anxiety. Going out and
getting thrown into the deep end of the pool, learning
independence, breaking away, though its a steep learning curve,
will bring you more happiness and satisfaction than you ever
thought possible
Ravagers,
Overseas education is not for the poor nor weak
minded.
You will be away from your support system. Your family,
friends, your psychiatrist/psychologist.
If you are not the kind that can adapt easily and roll with
the flow.. you will be like one of many whom had tried and
failed.
You will experience culture shock and many issues that
requires a calm and patient mind; else you'd be losing
yours.
If you are unable to function outside your comfort zone, my
advise is to stay where you are and work your way up from
there
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typically we tell people to stay with family support system.
Talk to your doctors etc.
BUT many times Singaporean family may see "TS" as a
problems rather than a solution because of mental
situation.....Singaporeans are still emotionally imature in
handling mental shortcoming in the publics. There are no community
Health Care system in Singapore. It is difficult to find
motivation out of a perpectual cycle of
sterotype support system.
At the end of the day...TS is still Young and still have alot to
growth to be a more confident individual and Can still make worthy
contribution to the Society and will be able to decide what is
"good for him/herself" it is a hard decision but a decision worthy
of consideration of changing lives and be a confident
individual.
A cross road in life indeed.......