it is best not to anyhow like that give....
u will become emotionally drained
therefore, see situations then give
If you can truly give unconditionally, you won't even expect
anything in return, so you won't be overly concerned about the
outcome. If you're not that concerned about the outcome, then you
won't feel emotionally drained. :)
Reason that someone becomes emotionally drained is cos
he/she is expecting the other party to return the 'favour', in
terms of feelings or actions. when you expect something in
return, it becomes conditional love.
If you truly care about someone, you'll just do stuff to show
your care and concern for that person. Whether that person
reciprocates in actions or words shouldn't be of the greatest
importance to you, as long as he/she feels better cos of your
actions. Of cos, if you love that person romantically, if
things are meant to be, then your actions will eventually touch
that person's heart. If not, at least, you're slowly growing your
caring side, which will help you in your own life anyway. It
could also prepare you better for 'The Special One' meant for you
in future.. :)