I want to extend my sympathies and also encourage all of you,
especially 86jl, to be strong and never give up hope.
Although the physical capabilites may be hampered, but it will
sharpen your mental and emotional capabilities as a result.
Just like how a blind person develop strong hearing, or become
sensitive to surroundings and people's feelings.
I think similarly it will develop you to be a wiser person and
emotionally and mentally stronger, and makes you a new person with
new capabilities.
Especially also I want to encourage family members, the sister,
family, girlfriend, to be strong and always stick to love and
compassion, and also similarly never give up.
I think if time and occasion permits, sometime in future, some
people here can organize a visit and give moral support. (if that
is permissable by 86jl and family)
If I may ask a question, could I ask what was the nature of the
accident?
Please know that although we are strangers on the internet, I
have personally taken note of your brother's predicament and am
willing to lend help, as with other people here.
Please dont give up hope or lose energy and please dont hesitate
to come visit this forum to ask any help, or just to chat or ask
advice etc.
Hi, wat u mean by the nature of the accident? it was a car
accident when my bro was knocked down while crossing the road..