Such events are the worst when it comes to finding a life
partner. For guys no matter how 'desperate' we are only drawn by
looks at the start and can only imagine initiating a relationship
if we're physically attracted on a minimum level plus other
qualities. Without the physical attraction, we won't even start the
ball rolling to discover the other wonderful traits a girl may
have.
Dont waste your time. Such events have a low filter. The
only filter is anyone who can afford $40 will be in the event.
Want to have better chance of a hit and get better quality guys?
Try your office, if you work in a large organisation higher chance
cos more to choose from, at least you know they are of a certain
educational/social background that is in your range. Another good
place that have placed many successful married couples is the
church. Same theory. Higher probability of like minded people
of relatively similar backgrounds placed together.
In fact next week i'm attending my brother's wedding. He finally
got hitched at 34 after he had almost given up on finding a life
partner because he was a bastard to many of his ex gfs which
included mentally unbalanced young girls 6 years his junior, and
earlier girls he did wrong to when he was in uni. He finally found
someone he's attracted to and is compatible with him. A lovely
lady his age who's a divorcee with no kids. And they met at the
workplace, holding about the same rank in a GLC, very similar
backgrounds. He's finally met someone whom he feels is his equal
and can engage him, he tells his friends.
There are also quite a number of old guys in their 30s who only
go for young girls aged 19 to 23, still in JC or university. These
loser geezers do so because these young girls haven't seen much of
life, and are easily impressed. If the guy drives, the young girl
will think "omg he's such a good catch" just because the boys of
her age are still in NS. Its so easy to hook and impress these
stupid girls so these loser guys go for short term gain. But of
course these rarely amount to marriage cos the girls aren't ready
to settle down. These guys are unable to attract women their age,
who have higher expectations because they've been through life and
so have higher standards and possess higher focus in
what they want, and are also earning quite good income
themselves.
Yes, I started to realise that. Thanks for your opinion.
