Girl knew Guy from a online dating site. After a week of
chatting and viewing of pictures, Guy asked girl out for a short
meet-up
They met shortly and girl felt that guy was a nice guy. It was a
normal cafe meeting with a normal short conversation, but girl felt
that guy wanted to leave like 30 minutes into the conversation
Guy wrote in his online dating profile that he
dislike shallow people and girl thought that he was sincere
in knowing more people, and definitely not the shallow type.
After the meet up (which ended rather shortly), girl did not
hear from guy . Guy did not bother to msn or sms her after the
date.
Girl however still have a good impression of guy and decided to
contact him. Guy replied politely but kept telling girl
that he is currently super busy with his work and wouldnt be able
to even chat with her even on msn.
Girl told guy that she wants to know him better. BUt guy
turned her down flatly by sayin that he finds that there is no
chemistry between them and they cant click. Girl told him
that it is impossible to tell whether you have chemistry with a
person from one date, but guy said he could tell very accurately.
Guy then went on to say he just wanna remain as friends with girl
and that he would never consider her as a lifepartner. He even went
far to say that he does not want to know her better, and would only
wanna be friends with her now and forever. Which means. girl as
totally no chance..
Girl doesnt know why the guy is giving her such an absolute NO.
its like guy would never ever like her or consider her but just see
her pemanently as a friend. Girl ask is it due to her looks. Guy
claimed no, and that he only goes for feelings. Guy said girl looks
ok, and doesnt know why girl think he is rejecting her on the basis
of looks
Under this situation, what could be the real reasons why Guy is
totally rejecting girl just after a meeting?
Please ask the girl to forget about that guy.
Not worth her effort, if he is so quick to judge
others.
