it alway the hardest to get over your 1st
an advice
1. keep all those stuff that made u remember him somewhere (best
is ask a friend to help u safe keep it so that u will not be able
to see those stuff)
2. keep yourself busy so that u dun have time to think abt
him
3. time will heal
4. do not abuse yourself to alcohol to make u forget him
i took 2 years plus to get over her
if u need someone to talk to u can pm me.
all the best, take care
god bless 
help me oso leh...me oso heart pain pain (: