how do i help someone with avoidance issues ?
he suffers from these symptoms :-
- runs away from situations which may invoke intense emotions in
him
- non-confrontation. he rather avoid and run away than to
confront and possibly engage in an argument
- if it is an issue which he doesn't know how to solve or has
tried many times unsuccessfully to solve it, he gives up and stops
trying to explain himself. he "lets go" and just lets it be,
leaving the mess as it is
- he has a strong pride
Confront what ? Is the issue/problem yours or his ?
If he doesn't has the answer to resolve the problem.. what you
want him to do ? Pull the answer out of your arse ?
He's not God you know. I think the person with the problem is
not him.. but you.
