Ohh...
Yes sometimes when your friends ask you to go out........you
just consider whether you like the activities or not.........If you
dont like it, dont force yourself, just say sorry you are tired at
the moment, next time will go.....And when the next time comes, do
join them.......So you just reduce the intensity and frequency.
Just be honest and say you dont feel like going out, you want to
stay at home.
I think it's ok.....
You still keep in touch with them though.........but just dont
force yourself, just have an intensity which suits you.
I think nobody will blame you. Dont worry about that....
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About the umbrella guy....
Sometimes knowing new people can open new doors and new
pathways. For example you can know his friends, and so on.
I think it's OK to go out with him once, and then you can decide
from there. But if you dont like him at all, then its Ok, just
forget about him. After all, you are still young and there are many
chances. Haha.
ok. Hope your advice means no harm between me and my friends. I
no feelings towards the umbrella guy at all. Actually its hard for
me to meet him after work because i will probably have plans. I
just pass him my number because its how i repay my thanks. Smses
wont hurt. I dont have any attention of having a guy with me now. I
just like to look at them only. Like how u guys like to look at
pretty girls.
Da_dood? doubt that will work hahas. because even though i give
out a straight answer to them, they keep on pestering me say "why?"
or "u never know once u try" etc. irritating. But i cant ignore
them. or else, they think im stingy =.=
