I can't get along with my mother and sister, just can't. my mom
and sister really same pattern one, so disorganised and messy,
really, while I am organised and like cleanliness.
My mother always want to know what I am doing and thinking.when
I was young, she likes to control me, which I refused to let her
control me. I do not know why is she such a control freak. maybe
she over-concerned me, which I feel I needed a space.
Cleanliness-wise, I will say it will be difficult to make your
mother change. Since she is a disorganised and messy person, you
will just have to be her good son and clean up her mess.
Most mothers will try to "control" their children, though there
are those who go really overboard doing so. Just tell your mother
to give you your own space. If she doesn't buldge, then as luvcfood
suggested, you can move out if you can find somewhere else to
stay.
