Its been more than a year since my ex and I broke up but till
now, I would say that I havent gotten over him. Although I'm able
to live life without him, I still think about him everyday, and
wondering how I could have made things better for the both of us.
Right now...My ex is pretty sad because he got dumped by his ex-gf
(the girl after me). It breaks my heart to see him this sad and I
feel like cheering him up. But then again...I dont know if I will
be making the right choice. I dont deny that I wouldnt mind
forgetting the past and starting afresh again with him if there's a
chance but I also know that he's very much over me already.
Any advices? Should I or should I not? :/
I suggest u move on..no point going back to the same
person..there are so many potentials out there..just go out have
fun, date as many guys, get into many relationships (but
never sexually)..after all, dating and relationship is about being
happy and having fun..
Showing concern for him is great..it shows that u
are magnanimous and not petty but starting afresh again
will make one guy feel like "wow i must be pretty something to make
her still wanna come back to me, so screw it, however i treat her,
she'll still come back to me" kinda attitude = not showing respect
and taken for granted to an individual, which will result in u
getting hurt in the end. Like u said he dumped u, and if ur to get
back to him, he'll prolly dump u again for the same reason he
dumped u a year ago someday.