We have been together for more than 5 years already, so much so
we even move in together. We have been together since our teenage
years, and now we're now in our mid 20s.
However, recently i get that slight feeling that this is not
what i want. I guess expectations change as we grew older.
I would like to hear some comments on what i should do.
So you are sick of your girlfriend already?
But of course, after 5 years even if you had Miss Universe as
your girlfriend, you would also be sick of her.
So you have found another girl you would like to get close
with?
Please don't be so selfish and think you are the only person in
your relationship who HAD a choice to find someone better and
move out of with your current relationship.
Be more responsible towards your girlfriend because you had
wasted 5 good years of her youth!
Why bother to call off the relationship only after 5 years? Why
not do it within 5 weeks or 5 days if she isn't the one for
you?
The fact is clear, you did not have a change of heart which is
why you are pondering and holding onto this relationship. You are
just sick of her physical appearance and you no longer lusted after
her body and you are coughing out all sorts of excuses to exit this
relationship as gallantly and righteously as you could.
Guess what? This kind of behaviour has no honour at all in our
current society and if you really want to exit out of this
relationship, you need to do it in an ugly manner and tainted your
reputation forever and live with it on your conscience for
eternity.
Don't come and tell me it's not fair to you, unless you can tell
me how fair is it towards your girlfriend when you are the one
enjoying her inside out and she's taking care and pleasing you on
the outside in.
Wasting 5 years of our time? I do not forgive that kind of
behaviour.