her past r/s got this ex bf hor, he that time just left her and
never say a word.now although i know/and she say that she dun like
him liao, she only want to be like normal frens la BUT the problem
is that hor, the ex bf cut off all contacts with her
FYI, she say she dun like him, but
does not mean she had completly wipe off her memories with him.
Still want be normal friends, weired. You abit contridicting>
her ex bf cut off all contacts you not happy mea?
so this is like some unfinished business la,i tell her that she
needs to finish it soon, then she say, must wait for the right time
all this shit
What business is there to
finish?Leave then leave liao, still want them to meet up talk
properly?Wait old feeling linger then you jia lat lor.
sooooooooooooo, what the fuck have i been doing? doing all the
shit, putting in so much effort, and now then find out that she
haven 100% to me? smlj? wtf?
I think you are jealous, its
normal, who want a gf/bf that keep think of their ex.
So, buck up, move her wid your sincerity, gv her love, care &
concern.
thats why i came to a conclusion, why must i waste so much of my
time, effort and energy to this kind of cock up r/s, while i can
have a ball of a time? i still so fucking young also
Want to waste time or not depends
on you.
1. Do you think she is the right one for you?
2. Do you want her as spare tire till maybe one day you find
someone better?
3. Do you think having her as someone to cuddle at some point in
time when you lonely?
4. Now you go play, do you think you can also so fast get a
gf?
andddddd heres the fun part, need advices from u sensible bros
and siss'
should i just hold on and wait for something uncertain, or jitao
break liao?
My ans is imo of what i will
do.
Getting a new gf is not easy, furthermore some females are
just too materlistic, see you have this then be with you, and you
have to start all over again, waste time right?
if hold on, why? and what should i do?
Hold on may mean she meant
something to you, thus then you will stress & come forum to
seek options. I believeeeeee she's already somehow inside your
heart. Let me put it this way, no-one is perfect, she is willing to
be with you then go on, till the day when s*it happen. You try your
best to make her 4get her ex, You make it a point to give her
memories of your own.
if break, why? and what should i do?
Break is cos you cannot control
your emotions (i think> i may be wrong).
Why to break up is because you buay tahan the fact that she's
somehow never wash off her ex momories> this need times
lah..(Dun tel me you can 4get your ex? if she some super pretty
female, sure got some good memories de.)
You can also test test her by
saying how she hurt you by thinking of her ex..the cock & bull
story, see her reaction, got remose or not..
Last but not least. Guys have to be a PLAYER, dun be a
SUCKER.
In a r/s, you can sacrifise all, give all BUT you MUST always
control your own heart & brain. Dun get caught in the web of
love, it will benifit you in time to come, unless you are very sure
of that pariticular female that is willing to spect her rest of her
life with you till she die. 要拿得起,放得下. 事业要紧,有钱你怕没女人丫!!I dunno your
age now, but when you come into the socity, you will hv a different
mindset as you mature down the road of this pratical world. then
you wil understand what my chinese words means.
Of cos i dun mean all female like
money, some will provide it to you. When you come late 20s to
early 30s, you see the females auto come de..Reason is
cos many females somehow have a thinking / influnence of
getting married, wearing the gown etc...She wan to look pretty on
her big day.. so..if you understand what i mean.