I'm annoyed at my relative namely my second aunt.
Recently my grandma fell down and injured herself (she is living
with my second uncle's family). Only my fourth aunt and her
daughter came down to the house and together we brought our grandma
to the hospital to treat her injuries and she was hospitalized for
a few days.
Funny thing is out of the five sons that she has, only my family
and my fourth aunt's family took turns to look after her because my
grandma is scared to be alone in the hospital...to cut long story
short, now she accuse me and my sister of not caring for my grandma
thus she fell...w...t...f?! She fell in their house and blame us
for it? I only knew this from my other relatives...so
annoyed...
Rumours and hearsay can be very hurtful and mostly UNTRUE.
The best thing for you to do is to clarify this with your second
aunt FACE TO FACE.
Your other relatives may be trying to cause a rift within the
family.
Your aunt did her duty taking care of your grandma. You should
be asking yourself WHY your grandma is not staying at YOUR house
instead ?
It is easier to hate, more harder to love.