Does he really likes me?

last SG · 2009-12-23T07:19:11+00:00

So, you're his gf? did you get into his circle of friend? if not, you are nothing but some meat that he's aiming at.

gr33ndoll SG

I need some advice and suggestion.

I am confused.

I knew a man from internet 3 months ago. We decided to meet up. Few days later, he said he misses me, loves me and wants me to be his girlfriend. Each time we meet, he will bring me to a park, we then kiss and engage in heavy petting.

From the first day we met until now, he has never ceased to sending sms to me every day. However, the smses he sent to me were either what are you doing? do you want to meet? I feel so sad receiving this kind of messages... He never ask about my condition/situation whatsoever. A simple message showing care such as "how are you?" is a "hopeless" to hear from him.

I feel ambivalent whether he really likes me or i am just his tool. Sometimes he will asks me to hotel, though, i never agree.

By the way, he treats me pretty nice.

What should i do? Should i trust him? Should i avoid him? ...

^Acid^ aka s|aO^eH~ SG

Well the last I heard, he went to a hotel with blu3doll...

oh~ dun forget the time behind the alley with purpl3doll...

hmmm... I suggest u just dump him

Poignant SG

avoid him, trust me.

he only want to do those kind of stuffs with you.

or you can try, change your attitude towards him and see if he still even bother to msg you. i bet he wont anymore.

gr33ndoll SG

My heart melts when he says he miss me...

ChoCoChips SG

u see his kuan

u know he's oni out for the *ahem ahem* lo

tts the way i see it la

or u ask him directly lo

"why u no concern me? oni wan to meet?"

see wad he say

WahahaT SG

gr33ndoll, i miss you. haha.

Poignant SG

My heart melts when he says he miss me...

-.-??

i also can say i miss you luh.

it's just a phrase, ppl who say it sincerely, you can feel it de.

gr33ndoll SG

i feel his sincerity

Poignant SG

i feel his sincerity

ok lor.

then you cont like that lor.

dont regret one day ok?

Mr Milo SG

TS, if he really likes or loves you he should be very concerned about how you:

are you angry, sad, need consolation or just a listening ear?

does he even make an attempt to let you feel better? be it actions or words?

tell everyone here, has he ever done any of these?

how much? when? what situation?

even if he does, how does he say it? what is the tone and language used?

is it sincere?

if there is a no to any of these questions, FORGET HIM!

gr33ndoll SG

No la.... I should listen to u

WahahaT SG

-.-??

i also can say i miss you luh.

it's just a phrase, ppl who say it sincerely, you can feel it de.

ya. tats the point i wan to bring it up to you.

it is so easy for a person to say this three word. he may or may not mean it, so be careful with yr decision.

Poignant SG

that's a difference between love and lust.

and in your case, it's obvious.

time to wake up girl, learn how to protect yourself and not giving in everything when you think you're in 'love'.

good luck to you, and your life.

SomebodyInSG SG

Girl, you're getting sucked in and you don't realise it.

You yourself are saying, it doesn't seem like he truly cares about you hence you have doubts. Maybe you could explain what is it he does that makes you think he is 'nice' to you?

Probably better to see it in the whole context, since I don't really know him or you for that matter, it could be that he cares but doesn't know how to show it, or that you don't know how to understand or appreciate it even though I strongly doubt it. Especially with the invitation to go to a hotel.

Just what is it that he does or say that makes you feel his sincerity? My first response is not to trust him too readily. But to ask again, in what ways is he nice to you and what is the basis of your belief in his sincerity?

Poignant SG

i guess your case is an obvious one, and you should be able to make a decision easily base on what you've seen from him. right?

WahahaT SG

based on yr story, i think after he get wat he wants, he will leave you. tat my point of view. but we onli can give you our views, decision is yrs. if u think u will be happy with him, then dun regret.

yr question"does he really likes me" i think is yes. but "does he really love me" my ans is a straight no.

hisoka SG

dear greendoll, I miss you.

Becksatic SG

the best relationship is always one that does not involve sexual encounters.

parn SG

I can see many of you are very happy ...

gr33ndoll SG

my heart so pain....