who hates their father???

Keyboardx3 SG

just wanna know the average % of ppl in sg who hates their father... i easily have 4 frens who hates their father.. for various reasons.. so personally i hate my father to the core.. any1 else?

Rooney9 SG

why do you hate your father, care to share?

not only hate fathers lar, but also mothers and siblings as well. its not easy to live and co-exist in one family. every individual has his/her own habits, beliefs etc.

Poignant SG

i dont believe in hatred towards family members.

anger luh i call it.

it could be for a day, a week, month, or even years.

but it's when you lie on your deathbed, that you know who really are your kins

caleb_chiang SG

Don't we all hate our family member in one way or another... but most don't hold their grudges...

Wacky Sung SG

If you hate your father,think about it.Without your father and you will never exist today.Beside that,who raise you up?Even a plant need to take care and norished before they can get full grown.

likeyou SG

Yes, father only one. Mother only one.

Once he/she gone, no more for life.

Love them, care them, hug them...once gone, no chance....

Remember that.

Osamituofo SG

You break the ten commandments if you do not honour your parents.You will go to hell for that.Filial piety.Look at how many elderlies abandoned in homes.

ztreyier SG

I love and respect my father. Even if he does things that I may not approve, I will still respect him because he is my father and I am his son.

dragg SG

unless he was irresponsible towards the family otherwise dont use the word hate.

Rooney9 SG

to hate ie easy, but to forgive is divine.

not everybody can forgive.

Dejomel SG

Blood is thicker than water.

You can hate your father, but in the end, all you have wrought is more pain.

gr33ndoll SG

i love my father, i love my family

Rooney9 SG

Its not that they hated their fathers, but just that they are angry with their fathers.

reasons for hating / angry are plenty - forsake the family when he was an infant/child, beat him up when he was a child, esp when he misbehave or disobedience, insulted him that he was a useless bum, or how I wish to strangle you to death when you were born etc etc.

Rooney9 SG

its easier to love your parents and family when they are all good and nice people.

what about those born in a dyfunctional family like having drunkard and gambler father, abusive and irresponsible father etc.

popikachu SG

I use to hate my father to the core for being so useless...

But after that certain day, when something happen to me, I remember his face... And from that moment, I know he loves me and care for me for real.

But still, he is useless and a idiot who dunno how to love and care or even think...

But from that day, I forgive everything because I know he loves me and care for me...

BUT STILL... WHY SO MANY FATHER DUNNO HOW TO LOVE AND CARE AND CONCERN THE CORRECT WAY DE?

well prolly men's ego. haha

But the love is there!

MrSean SG

Not only that... What about when you work day and night, trying so hard to do well but still kena scolded? Getting scolded when you're not in the wrong? Being SAD also kena scolded!? When it comes to this type of useless ppl I give up already.

People who say that you shouldn't hate your parents etc... I think you just haven't seen what some parents are like... Not everyone's parents are good and nice. There are unreasonable idiots.

To people who have such parents... Their parents are worth nothing more than the stranger on the street. (Often less.) Seriously.

ChoCoChips SG

if my kid nxt time is like some people in this thread

i rather 生叉烧.

remember that the man that u think treated u badly brought u up.

paid for ur expenses.

the most impt thing is

without him u wont be here posting crap.

and no,

my dad is not those perfect dads.

he's a badass.

dragg SG

I use to hate my father to the core for being so useless...

But after that certain day, when something happen to me, I remember his face... And from that moment, I know he loves me and care for me for real.

But still, he is useless and a idiot who dunno how to love and care or even think...

But from that day, I forgive everything because I know he loves me and care for me...

BUT STILL... WHY SO MANY FATHER DUNNO HOW TO LOVE AND CARE AND CONCERN THE CORRECT WAY DE?

well prolly men's ego. haha

But the love is there!

maybe you can answer the question yourself when you become a parent.

remember to post again when that day arrives.

haha...