I broke up with my ex-gf around 4years back. During that time, i
wasnt really serious about her and just broke up with her because i
got no more feeling for her. 3years ago, after thinking about what
i did, i realised that i had really fallen for her, but she was
already attached. Til now, i still can't get over her. I really
need some help here, all the pain i felt is getting unbearable
soon. Please tell me what i should do. Thanks for any help, advice
in advance.
Hi shattered09,
I will not say that you are right or wrong, but it was your own
choice to end your relationship with her back then. It is too late
to look back now, I will suggest that you try to shift your focus
to other things in your life, such as your favourite hobbies
and activities, and also your studies/work. If you do not
attempt to move on now, and keep trying to think about the past
instead, the pain will only keep increasing.
You should also try talking to a friend who will listen to you,
it will make you feel better. However, please do not attempt to get
another girl as your girlfriend just for the sake of numbing your
pain - Having another half whom you truly love will help in healing
your wound, but having another half just for the sake of filling
the emptiness in you will not.
Cheers.
