I am a victim of BGR betrayal. This is what happened:
I liked a girl since I was in Secondary 2 (Now going Secondary
4). She is someone who will fall in love easily as long as her
admirer treated her well. {However, no matter how well I
treated her, she doesn't like me! =( } This happened just recently
and she became someone who I hated the most. I had another
best friend, name her as Girl B, who had secretly
admiring a boy, who was my best friend, in my class for about a
year. This girl, let me name her as Girl A, tried to help Girl B to
make them from acquaintance to become couple. But then instead Girl
A fell in love with my best friend. At first I was not angry as I
thought that it was a joke or something to disturb Girl B. But it
was true. Plus Girl A is the best friend of Girl B. I talked
to Girl A about it, using some kind of coarse language [I know
my mistake...><] and her reply was to discuss with
my best friend. Girl B wanted to just let the matter rest but I
couldn't see her suffer just like that as I am her best friend too.
I was exasperated and told Girl A that I hated her. How can this
kind of thing be done? It is very, what I normally call as,
'Bas*ard'. Hmmm...should I forget about the matter and forgive
them??? Can someone tell me an answer? I blocked them in MSN
too.
Hi Drakonaut,
Please do pardon me for saying so, but you don't seem like a
very nice person. To use coarse language along with hurtful words
speak a lot of your character. Even though you are unhappy about
Girl A's actions and the fact that she is not interested in you no
matter what you do, you shouldn't have gone to such an
extent.
Even if you can forgive Girl A, it is unlikely that either of
the girls can forgive you. Your words and actions towards Girl A,
despite the pleadings of Girl B to just leave things be, will
probably have resulted in some frictions between the two of them.
This will in turn only cause the two of them to dislike you.
It is no surprise that the two of them are treating you only as
an acquaintance now. As Acid has suggested, the only thing left for
you to do is to move on.
Cheers.
