Need advice

t55 SG

Hi,

need an advice on this matter,being going out with this lady for a few dates,we chat and sms each other everyday.Onces we share an umbrella and she hold my hands.Then one day i ask her about our relationship,she reply is best we be good friend and i am confuse.Now i seldom txt or call her.During the new year count down she txt me asking if i am going out later,i am not sure how to mkae out of this relationship any kind soul can englighten me.

dkcx SG

Hi,

Just a few dates and you so fast want get serious?

Too soon bah. Go out together more and give each other time to know each other better before considering bringing the relationship further.

zichuan SG

she icthy liao, normal go out do some light petting will do.

t55 SG

Waht u mean ??

likeyou SG

Treat it as a normal outing with her.

And go out a few times and see how it progress.

Either she find you as a friendship or she find you maybe can develop.

Dont let this matter stress you.

Act normal and enjoy yourself.

likeyou SG

Treat it as a normal outing with her.

And go out a few times and see how it progress.

Either she find you as a friendship or she find you maybe can develop.

Dont let this matter stress you.

Act normal and enjoy yourself.

Garyjob SG

Eh bro, I read the stuff written on how to build a relationship with the opposite sex on this blog leh. Seems like it really applies to your situation.

I once had this problem before loh but ended didnt get the girl. She really just treat me like friend friend only leh. I think you need to do something to turn her on and bring up the heat.

DRC SG

Let me change the story abit.

Imagine if you are going out with a gal only for a few dates. Suddenly she asked you about your relationship with her. How would you do if you are uncertain about the relationship yourself but do not want to destroy any hopes or friendship.

caleb_chiang SG

Why? hold hand can get pregnant ah? Maybe she hold your hand cos you are holding the umbrella too far and she's getting wet leh?

Angelica1 SG

Hi,

»¤ Liquified ¤« ... SG

every relationship starts with friendship, never hear before?

t55 SG

Hi,

now i have ask the question how to let her know i still want to be her friend as i don`t want to make myself awake whenever i met her.

TooFree SG

I think she wants the relationship to start off as good friendship first.

Fugazzi SG

One can be friends with anyone - but the truth is that behind this word - friendship - one is expecting , one has a 'goal' or ...

So TS just be honest lar, if u are loving means u are loving, if someone else is looking for reasons to love u or another - then know it is not love - that includes u. It is something else pretending to be love.

So are u being friendly or looking for a friend? - two different things, be clear about it and no one will come away feeling hurt, cheated or disappointed.

t55 SG

Hi,

now what should i do,she never txt me or call me.

Fugazzi SG

What should i do - carry on living and being whatever u are. Intelligence is living and partaking of life while waiting.

Otherwise, one is just trying to live, it is similar to deluding oneself that one is reading a book when one is merely holding a book! The process of reading is the real thing. The process of living (even rite now) is the real thing! Otherwise, it is delusion n neurosis.

brainerror SG

she icthy liao, normal go out do some light petting will do.

wtf, you're totally a san man!

anyway, my advice let nature takes its course.no point you confuse yourself.

TrueHeart SG

Hi,

Hi t55,

The first thing which you should do is to ask yourself, what are your feelings for her. Do you truly just want her to be your friend? Or do you have deeper feelings for her?

Only by answering this question to yourself first, then will you rid yourself of the confusion enshrouding your mind.

Cheers.

t55 SG

Hi,

i have true feeling for her but i gusses i let naturel take it place.

Genie99a SG

Hi,

i have true feeling for her but i gusses i let naturel take it place.

Smart boy!

Chasing girl don't so kanchiong..... 1st to chiong 1st to die. (actually they don't die just end up making a fool of themselves.)

She want she will call you de. But of course be natural lar.... see her still joke and laugh.

Kind Regards

Genie